wow that word, its a very serious word, it seems to be a house hold name now.no one knows why we get it ,it is just there,you could be doing all the right things or all the bad things ,it does not mater theses days .you go to bed one night and you are fine and the next day it is there .what are we to do ,where do we go from here now ,am i going to live or die,and why,why me.what a bout my family ,my husband if you got one ,my children if any,we wish it was some one else ,like rapist ,murderes ,druggies,but for some people its a punnishment,some others like me a second chance,dont let the cancer take you ,you take controll of it ,put it in its place,you come first ,be strong and if you feel you cant let the lord and family do it for you,there is no grearter suport then them,believe in the power of prayer and the lord ,he will give you strenght, your family can bring you up and hold you tight,the lord and your family will encourage every step of the way, and if you dont believe in the lord ,believe in me ,i will be by your side at all times i will help encourage you give strengh ,what ever i can do i will try my best to be there for you,i understand what you are going through, i have been there my self. and i thank god and my family,as you know i never mention friends ,but thats because i consider each one as a family member,i love them all ,as i love you.i dont know you ,but god gave me a big heart ,to love you and every one,god bless